From July 16-18, 50 CARP leaders from 12 different chapters across America and abroad gathered at the Belvedere Training Center in Tarrytown, New York, for the 2017 CARP “Momentum” Leadership Retreat. The purpose of this retreat was to establish a connection between chapter leaders, determine a direction as a National CARP team, and prepare for the upcoming school year.
Teresa Rischl, President of CARP America shared,
“We chose the theme ‘Momentum’ because we wanted to inherit and carry on the energy from True Mother’s historic speech at Madison Square Garden on July 15. This summer we had several big initiatives, including the Japan-Korea Trip and CARP Las Vegas’ 40-day Actionizing Road Trip, that led up to the event at Madison Square Garden.
This was the main reason that we came together and it united all the different chapters around the country to come together as one. I wanted to make sure that our CARP leaders had the chance to reflect on and digest all of these amazing experiences so we could go back out stronger and clearer than ever before.”
Although it was a mere two and a half days, the leaders were educated, empowered, and motivated to make CARP a driving force of change this fall semester. Following the “Peace Starts With Me” rally where CARP co-founder Mother Moon gave a momentous speech promoting peace at this time, the students were inspired to contribute in their own way.
The first day, participants shared about their accomplishments as chapters from this past year, setting a precedent for even bigger and better success in the future. Then, they heard from CARP alumna and current advisor for CARP LA, Naoko Hiraki, about her journey through CARP and the deep purpose that CARP was created for.
The next day, each of the 12 chapters discussed their current activities and status. Despite the fact that some chapters are well-established and some are just starting out, all the leaders were inspired and encouraged by the progress made by other chapters.
“Hearing all the chapter reports … gave me so much hope to see all that is going on in our CARP movement everywhere and celebrating each other’s collective victory. I definitely learned and inherited from gaining various perspectives.” – Junta Naito
In the afternoon, the leaders received practical guidance from Tasnah Moyer, the National Young Adult Ministry Coordinator for Family Federation for World Peace and Unification, using the quote by Father Moon, “Before I can lead others, I need to lead myself.” She provided easy steps on how to develop positive daily habits for internal growth and how to make a contribution with these habits. This talk gave the leaders an opportunity to reflect on their current spiritual health and how they can make adjustments to center themselves daily.
“Tasnah’s talk helped me to be honest with myself, especially leading into being a chapter president, [by] asking myself and reflecting on the areas where I fall short or lack integrity in.” – Joshua Holmes
After a long day of listening, CARP leaders were given an opportunity to go on a prayer walk around the expansive grounds of the Belvedere Training Center (where Father and Mother Moon have trained numerous leaders in the past) to meditate and pray about the future for themselves as leaders and for CARP as an organization. This time was valuable for the leaders because many of them felt overwhelmed by the constant grind and the looming task before them back on their respective campuses. Through this exercise, they were able to clear their minds and recommit to the larger goal for CARP.
“My highlight…was the prayer time we had. After hearing all these reports and results and testimonies from America, I could broaden my vision also for Europe and through sharing this with God, I had a strong sense of hope for Europe.” – Christiane Beutl
On the last day, CARP LV’s advisor, Akira Watanabe, guided the leaders on what kind of heart and motivation they should have when investing in CARP. With some humorous anecdotes, Mr. Akira’s talk encouraged the participants to think about the quality of their investment.
“[Mr. Akira’s talk] really helped me to have confidence in myself [and have] the heart of wanting to do something with my life to honor everyone who has sacrificed and invested into a kid (me) that was once lost with no direction.” – Masato Takahairo
Finally, chapters were given the time to plan and create action steps for the new year. All the leaders, whether part of well-established chapters or not, held lively discussions and made concrete plans for the future.
The energy in the room was vibrant and palpable as chapter leaders discussed their plans within their chapter and with others. It was even more touching when participants decided to use their meal break and free time to continue to meet together. They wanted to discuss what they could do together as a unified national CARP team. Since many of the leaders participated in the recent International Exchange Trip to Japan and Korea, where they attended a Conference on the Reunification of North and South Korea, these young leaders were inspired to make tangible steps towards supporting this cause with their CARP counterparts in Japan and Korea.
“The highlight of this retreat was being able to come together as CARP leaders from around the world and America. I felt for the first time that we are all fighting for the same vision and working together…I appreciate the time to share with one another, give and inherit, and inspire each other. There was so much power we generated together.” – Kailey Teo
Yuri Kaneko then led a session on how to share CARP’s vision with peers and professors on campus. It was coupled with a role-playing exercise on how to share the meaning of CARP with someone in just a minute.
“[The activity] was exciting and comfortable because we could practice with each other first. We knew how difficult it could be to do this in real life so this gave us a chance to challenge ourselves as a family. This was very hands-on activity and we got to learn to teach others about what might occur on campus.” – Jay Gonzalez
The retreat concluded with determinations, reflections, and testimonies showcasing each leader’s growth and dedication to the CARP. The participants developed a close bond of heart with their CARP brothers and sisters from around the nation. During the retreat, participants met in groups of people from different communities and chapters, which created a space of discovery and learning. These groups will continue to check-in with these mixed teams on a weekly basis to keep the momentum going. These leaders showed conviction and passion despite the challenges ahead – this attitude will continue to guide them in leading their chapters, inspiring others to follow in their footsteps.
Group photo in front of the CARP Korea Headquarters
From June 19th to July 4th, over 120 American CARP students participated in the second annual International Exchange Trip to Korea and Japan.
The very first international exchange trip took place in the spring of 2016. This initiative was started by a CARP-affiliated women’s group called Kodan in the Los Angeles area who hoped this trip would be an opportunity for the local CARP chapter members to develop leadership skills, discover CARP’s roots in Japan and Korea, and build relationships with international CARP members.
This year’s trip was a success and opened up opportunities for the future. The big takeaways were experiencing Father and Mother Moon’s heart and vision for CARP, the young people, and the world and fostering unity between the three countries of Japan, Korea, and America.
Rev. Nakamura lecturing at the 2-day Divine Principle Workshop
This year, participants spent eight total days in Japan and roughly four days in Korea. The trip opened with a 2-day Divine Principle workshop with content focused on the essence of the Divine Principle and the meaning and value of the marriage Blessing.
Mr. Nakamura gave the lectures and clearly explained the principled lifestyle and true families. Through these lectures, the participants gained a deeper understanding of the heart of God and how to develop healthy and lasting relationships.
“I learned a lot about the main principles from the Divine Principle. I learned that relationships and love ensure a better life for a person, and that true love is sacrificing yourself to your significant other just as God did. I appreciate everything that God has done to ensure a better life for all of humanity and I feel the hardships that He goes through when something goes wrong in His plan.” – Daniel
“I never realized how much True Mother had to sacrifice in her life with True Father, and it made me feel so grateful that God, True Parents, and my own parents have paid so much indemnity for the life that I have now. I also learned that without actual effort, you will never attain true happiness.” – Leo
American students enjoying a Japanese bento box lunch
After the two-day workshop, the participants went on a pilgrimage to Waseda University, following in Father Moon’s footsteps – the place he lived, the path he traveled, the prison he was sent to, and finally the university he attended. This experience opened up a path to understand Father’s past.
“It was cool to see where [True Father] was coming from. It was inspiring to see how he had to go through so much and then shared how he overcame.” – Benjamin
Fifteen of the participants experienced witnessing on Waseda’s campus. They invited students of the university to the CARP event, International Borderless Conference, where four CARP members spoke – two from CARP Japan, or J-CARP, and two from CARP America.
J-CARP representative giving a speech on his dreams at the 1st International Borderless Conference at Waseda University
A total of 15 new guests showed up at the event. They were inspired by the content and some even began studying the Divine Principle, which showcased to the participants how CARP can positively impact people. They could see the importance and necessity of CARP.
The next day, an exchange program was held between J-CARP and CARP America with presentations and testimonies, culminating in a homestay for the American students at the Japanese CARP houses to experience CARP Japan’s lifestyle.
Sharing experiences and a similar living space helped to bridge the cultural gap between the two CARP groups and foster new relationships.
Sightseeing and spending time with CARP Japan students in Tokyo
The leaders of J-CARP and CARP America met on June 26, exchanging plans and insights to build better CARP programs on both fronts. This was an inspiring exchange.
“I feel like the one thing that we lack is ambition to [J-CARP’s] degree. The one thing I felt we could absolutely inherit from them is that conviction. That’s something that America can inherit. Moving forward [for CARP L.A.], the first step is working on a clear, logical direction and model for what that CARP chapter is going to look like.” – Joshua
Leaders from CARP Japan and CARP America gathered to share best practices and learn from each other
Upon arrival to Korea, CARP America participated in a pilgrimage to Beomnetgol, Father Moon’s first church (also referred to as the” mud hut”), and Cheong Pa Dong, the first headquarters church. Witnessing Father and Mother Moon’s humble beginnings moved many participants to realize how much they sacrificed for the world.
“An amazing experience was being able to go to [Cheong Pa Dong] which was my first time…. I remember the pastor there telling us how True Father was praying floods of tears until the floors were wet and seeping through the other side. When I heard that, I was able to understand even a little how big Father’s heart was for this world. This pilgrimage helped me realize deeper God’s goal for the future.” – Ikusei
Staff members at the Rock of Tears in Busan
The participants then attended the 2017 International Collegiate Symposium for the Reunification of the Korean Peninsula at the Korean Congress building. Three representative students from CARP Japan, Korea, and America gave speeches on the importance of peaceful reunification. It was inspiring to see all three countries coming together to tackle this very crucial issue that was also dear to Father’s heart.
Afterwards, CARP America held an exchange program with CARP Korea to share, bond, and inspire each other to be their best self.
CARP America representatives giving a speech on the importance of North and South Korea Reunification
Finally, the culmination of the trip was meeting Mother Moon at the Cheon Jeong Gung Peace Palace. First, they were led to Father Moon’s resting place, Ponyangwon, for a prayer. From mud hut to palace in the presence of Father and Mother Moon, the participants were moved to tears and made determinations to work even harder from this point on.
“Visiting True Father’s grave allowed me to experience a deeply spiritual experience. I felt a tangible presence of the man who gave me everything; the man who instilled within me purpose and faith…. but then I realized that he was not at peace. Not until all of God’s children come home can Father be at peace. In this moment, I understood that fulfilling his mission is the only thing that will bring about joy to God, True Parents, and all of humankind.” – Ryusei
“I was holding in tears because of the emotional experience this trip has been. The love in the room was definitely there…. In that moment, I was filled with love that can last a lifetime.” – Darius
“Seeing True Mother in person allowed me to see the love that she has for humanity infinitely more clear than her portraits ever will. Today when visiting both Father and Mother, I felt a strong spiritual presence that I have only ever felt in my life when I was closest to God. I am looking for answers within my heart, and I won’t give up on the Divine Principle until I find what I’m looking for.” – David
CARP America posing with Mother Moon at the Peace Palace
Before the participants packed up to return home, they made determinations within their CARP chapters to create or expand their CARP chapters. Everyone was motivated to set goals and achieve them, even shouting them out loud for their fellow participants to hear.
All 120+ participants experienced one global family. With newfound determination and fond memories with CARP Japan and Korea, each participant is ready to go back to their communities and achieve more until the next year’s trip!
CARP Las Vegas finished up its third segment of the road trip across America. From June 17 to 19, a collaborative team consisting of CARP LV staff, Chicago YAM (Young Adult Ministry), and Prof. Gerry Servito organized a Divine Principle (DP) retreat for young people in the Midwest region.
This retreat started out at Camp KOHOE in Michigan on the first day, then continued at the Chicago Family Church facilities, and finally ended at a local park on the last day. Around 30 students participated in this weekend retreat.
With Gerry Servito as the presenter, there were four presentations that covered the introductory content of the Divine Principle – two lectures on The Principle of Creation, one on The Human Fall, and one on The History of Restoration.
The purpose of this event was to both, introduce the Divine Principle to new guests and to revitalize young Unificationists who were either born into the movement or have recently joined. For CARP LV, this was also an opportunity to raise up its leaders and members while also inspiring the local community about the Principle and this lifestyle.
Some of the participants shared with us their own intentions for joining this workshop.
“I wanted to experience healing from God’s love and connecting to my true self. I wanted to understand True Mother’s vision for the young people in this movement and in America.”
“My intention was to truly just be a student – to learn – and through new understanding and realizations to be able to receive God’s love and share that with others.”
“I wanted to understand and hear the Divine Principle from a new perspective. I also wanted to learn how to share the Principle with those who have never heard it before.”
“My intention going into this retreat was to build a strong foundation for my life of faith. [I want to] trust in God’s love, trust that God is guiding me and feel how it is to live for the sake of others.”
By the conclusion of the retreat, new guests were inspired about the Principle, relatively new members whose faith had been challenged by family and friends had their faith in the Principle and True Parents reinforced, and Unificationist-born young adults were revitalized in observing the Principle’s effect on more recent members and new guests.
There is some excitement among the Chicago young adults that they can introduce the Principle to their own friends and family. Here are a few realizations that some participants had during the retreat.
“[I realized] that a culture from Heavenly Parent’s love is deeply healing. It was something I was craving and I didn’t realize how much my heart was unable to rest in recent experiences. Coming back to the basics was very clarifying. The culture of love was really what put my heart at ease.”
“As a second generation [Unificationist], I’ve never really experienced interacting with a person my age who is just learning the Principle or has just accepted it. It was great to be with people in those positions! There was a [young] first generation sister on my team from CARP LV and it was amazing to witness her understanding of the DP. This gives me hope to be able to share the DP with people my age and to have them accept it.”
“Before I joined CARP, I always had an idea of the purpose of life. The purpose of life is love, however, I did not understand the full meaning. When I joined CARP, slowly it started to reveal itself. The purpose of life is love because God is love! Now the goal is to get through the 3 Great Blessings to fully understand the purpose of life, love, joy, and God.”
In its third installment, CARP partnered with GPA to provide a Culture Wars pilot seminar with over 40 GPA members as participants. The event was facilitated by Mi Young Eaton and the speakers included Gerry Servito, Robert Beebe, and Cheryl Wetzstein.
Participants were coming into this content without much expectation. It was their first time experiencing Culture Wars and they came with the intention to prepare for entering life after high school.
This pilot program was really about giving the participants an opportunity to experience the type of discussions and issues they will experience outside of the GPA program. For example, being introduced to the divisive nature of American politics and general polarization around pressing issues such as sexuality, education, and media.
The pilot sought to introduce “Headwing” ideology as a perspective that can be uplifting, reconciliatory, and provide a principled response to pressing cultural issues. Participants were discovering Headwing ideology throughout the program. The intention was to prepare them to be a more proactive voice after leaving GPA when dealing with the current cultural climate of America and the world. This allowed participants to be aware of and shape their own worldview while learning about other views.
“It allowed me to gain a sense of a broader view of how people view current world issues and allowed myself to gain a self realization of what worldview i take as well.”
“I felt the reality of the situation in current colleges and I could relate to the fact that society makes it difficult to speak up about our personal ethical views.”
“I actually thought the information was very VERY relevant. I took a lot of good points from this lecture, especially seeing the affect postmodern thinking has had on me.”
“The most important idea to me from this talk was that we should be pro-something and understand why instead of just being anti-everything. The effects of education and how it has changed over time was really relatable because I saw the changes in my own life. I also really like the idea of implementing the three great blessings into education.”
“It helped me to feel more confident going back home and especially for my future when I go to college.”
Some participants were engaged the content while others found the content relatively new. The pilot program is part of a process to communicate a Headwing perspective in a way that’s relevant to the current generation.
Currently, a team has been selected to begin creating content over the summer to share with CARP chapters and to use as a basis for future presentations, seminars, and media. There will be ongoing changes, including a re-branding and new name for the program. The working intention of the program in development is as follows:
To deliver a Headwing perspective that will stimulate respectful dialogue, reconcile and elevate the discussion of pressing cultural issues of the day.
To establish and embody a culture and environment of awareness, authenticity, open-mindedness, respect, and honesty among college students and professors where participants are empowered to impact the cultural discussion on American campuses.
If you’d like to join this team or would like more info please email firstname.lastname@example.org
In my last semester of college, I took a course in Global Health Diplomacy where the professor for the course called himself the Ambassador for Health. Having studied Diplomacy and International Relations for the past four years, this didn’t seem right to me since I was aware that the US government did not have an official position for a Health Minister.
I quickly came to realize that this professor who studied in the medical field intending to become a doctor decided at some point to change course in his career plans. Instead of becoming a practitioner, this professor took his extensive knowledge of medicine and health and essentially created his own position as he became the first U.S. diplomat of ambassador rank appointed to a public health mission.
More than anything else I took away from that course a new perspective on what it means to have a career. This professor had a role in mind that he wanted to fill and he was able to achieve that through his own unique creativity. Had he followed a path so many others had paved before him, he might not have made a unique and valuable contribution.
CARP’s last but not least Unification Principle is that “we contribute to society through mastery of our unique creativity.” This is the message that college graduates (of any year) need to hear.
Passion Isn’t Enough
It’s become commonplace to offer certain pieces of advice to college students that are actually quite misleading and incomplete. “Follow your passion” is a very attractive message. But relying on passion alone will not make you happy in the end.
Consider this graph that shows the relationship between a sample of student’s passions and the available jobs in those industries. If you cannot make a living with your passion, how long will that passion keep you happy?
Even some of the most successful people today did not necessarily follow their passion and yet they are passionate about their work. In many of these cases, people took on opportunities that eventually led to their passion.
For example, Steve Jobs – a pretty successful guy – became passionate about technology after a myriad of jobs and experiences that had little to do with his career at Apple. Jobs also made a valuable contribution to society in providing people with a means for greater convenience.
It would seem that helping others and improving society especially in big problem areas can guide a fulfilling career.
Our contributions need to be unique because they need to be diverse. Diversity is at the heart of a healthy and thriving community. In a democracy, diversity in perspectives and ideas can contribute to more inclusive solutions. A company needs diversity in its workforce to succeed in a globalizing world. A campus club like CARP benefits from a diverse membership in contributing to exciting and relatable programs and events.
Finding Your Creativity
Instead of following your passion (which is a state of passivity), take control and master your unique creativity which will then lead to a passion-driven life. But before you can master anything, you need to be able to identify the thing you are mastering.
So, if you haven’t already, how do you find your unique creativity? You need to take the time to ask a number of key questions about your life experience so far.
Take out a pen and paper and start with these:
Name the top 3 peak experiences in your life. What do they have in common? What does this tell you about yourself?
What are 3 of your most proud accomplishments? What were the key elements that defined this experience – the task, the skill set you drew upon, and the nature of the impact you made?
What are 3 big problems in the world that interest you? What would you like to tell your children and grandchildren about what you accomplished in your career? How will you explain to them what career you chose?
Happiness in your career is the cross between what you love, what you’re good at, and where you can make the greatest contribution to society. For more questions around your unique contribution, read through this article by Oliver Segovia in the Harvard Business Review.
We all have our unique creativity fueled by our interests and skills (which embodies passion), but sometimes the voices of other people cloud what we might already know and believe about ourselves. This is why it’s important to think out these questions on your own.
Whether you are fixed on a career path or not, take the time to ask yourself the right questions, consider your answers, and write them down. Then, you can set aside the question of what and focus on the how.
To master your unique creativity and offer that to the world will do wonders for your career.